ENCOURAGEMENT
“Quality of Life Series”
3/30/04 10/13/05
Steve Goodier Life Support http://www.LifeSupportSystem.com
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· Did you know that Albert Einstein could not speak until he was four years old and did not read until he was seven? His parents and teachers worried about his mental ability.
· Beethoven's music teacher said about him, "As a composer he is hopeless." What if young Ludwig believed it?
· When Thomas Edison was a young boy, his teachers said he was so stupid he could never learn anything. He once said, "I remember I used to never be able to get along at school. I was always at the foot of my class...my father thought I was stupid, and I almost decided that I was a dunce." What if young Thomas believed what they said about him?
· When F. W. Woolworth was 21, he got a job in a store, but was not allowed to wait on customers because he "didn't have enough sense."
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When the
sculptor Auguste Rodin was young he had difficulty learning to read and write.
Today, we may say he had a learning disability, but his father said of him, "I
have an idiot for a son."
His uncle agreed. "He's uneducable," he said. What if Rodin had doubted his
ability?
· A newspaper editor once fired Walt Disney because he was thought to have no "good ideas."
· Caruso was told by one music teacher, "You can't sing. You have no voice at all."
· And an editor told Louisa May Alcott that she was incapable of writing anything that would have popular appeal.
· What if these people had listened and become discouraged? Where would our world be without the music of Beethoven, the art of Rodin or the ideas of Albert Einstein and Thomas Edison?
· As Oscar Levant has accurately said, "It's not what you are, it's what you don't become that hurts."
· You have great potential. When you believe in all you can be, rather than all you cannot become, you will find your place on earth.
Today in the Word, April, 1989, p. 18.
Discouragement is dissatisfaction with the past, distaste for the present, and distrust of the future. It is ingratitude for the blessings of yesterday, indifference to the opportunities of today, and insecurity regarding strength for tomorrow. It is unawareness of the presence of beauty, unconcern for the needs of our fellowman, and unbelief in the promises of old. It is impatience with time, immaturity of thought, and impoliteness to God. William Ward
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “The Duke of Wellington”
Bits & Pieces, March 31, 1994, p. 24.
The British military leader who defeated Napoleon at Waterloo, was not an easy man to serve under. He was brilliant, demanding, and not one to shower his subordinates with compliments. Yet even Wellington realized that his methods left something to be desired. In his old age a young lady asked him what, if anything, he would do differently if he had his life to live over again. Wellington thought for a moment, then replied. "I'd give more praise."
LEADER: A little praise… a little encouragement…we could all use a some couldn’t we?
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Let’s Play Darts”
Bits & Pieces, December 9, 1993, p. 24.
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Everyone needs recognition for his accomplishments, but few people make the need known quite as clearly as the little boy who said to his father: "Let's play darts. I'll throw and you say 'Wonderful!'"
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“There are high spots in all of our lives and most of them have come about through encouragement from someone else. I don't care how great, how famous or successful a man or woman may be, each hungers for applause.
George M. Adams1878-1962, American Author
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “From Factory to Famous”
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon2/charles_dickens.htm
In the early 19th century, a young man in London
aspired to be a writer. But everything seemed to be against him. He had never
been able to attend school more than four years. His father had been thrown in
jail because he couldn't pay his debts, and this young man often knew the pangs
of hunger. Finally he got a job pasting labels on bottles in a rat-infested
warehouse, and he slept at night in a dismal attic room with two other boys -
guttersnipes from the slums of London. He had so little confidence in his
ability to write that he sneaked out and mailed his first manuscript in the dead
of night so nobody would laugh at him. Story after story was refused. Finally
the great day came when one was accepted. True, he wasn't paid for it, but one
editor had praised him. One editor had given him recognition. He was so thrilled
that he wandered aimlessly around the streets with tears rolling down his
cheeks.
The praise, the recognition that he received through getting one story in print
changed his whole life. If it hadn't been for that encouragement, he might have
spent his entire life working in rat-infested factories. You may have heard of
that boy. His name is Charles Dickens.
Bits & Pieces, March 30, 1995, pp. 14-15
Dante Bartiel Rossetti, the famous 19th-century poet and artist, was once approached by an elderly man. The old fellow had some sketches and drawings that he wanted Rossetti to look at and tell him if they were any good, or if they, at least, showed potential talent.
Rossetti looked them over carefully. After the first few he knew that they were worthless, showing not the least sign of artistic talent. But Rossetti was a kind man and he told the elderly man as gently as possible that the pictures were without much value and showed little talent. He was sorry, but he could not lie to the man.
The visitor was disappointed, but seemed to expect Rossetti’s judgment. He then apologized for taking up Rossetti’s time, but would he just look at a few more drawings—these done by a young art student?
Rossetti looked over the second batch of sketches and immediately enthused over the talent they revealed. “These,” he said, “ah, these are good. This young man, whoever he is, has great talent. He should be given every help and encouragement in his career as an artist. He has a great future, if he will work hard and stick with it.”
Rossetti could see that the old fellow was deeply moved. “Who is this fine young artist?” he asked. “Your son?”
“No,” said the old fellow sadly. “It is me—40 years ago. If only I had heard your praise then … for you see, I got discouraged and gave up—too soon.”
HAVE SOMEONE READ: QUOTE # 3
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“Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you.”
William Arthur Ward, Author
HAVE SOMEONE READ: QUOTE # 4
http://www.cybernation.com/victory/quotations/subjects/quotes_encouragement.html
“Correction does much, but encouragement does more. Encouragement after censure is as the sun after a shower.”
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe 1749-1832
One of the greatest figures in Western literature
LEADER: It’s easiest to encourage when someone has done something stellar…or someone needs a tiny boost…but do you look beyond the surface …do you dig deep within yourself to give to others the encouragement they need deep within their being.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Old Spot”
Bits & Pieces, August 20, 1992, pp. 15-16.
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During quail season in Georgia, an Atlanta journalist met an old farmer hunting with an ancient pointer at his side. Twice the dog ran rheumatically ahead and pointed. Twice his master fired into the open air. When the journalist saw no birds rise, he asked the farmer for an explanation. "Shucks," grinned the old man, "I knew there weren't no birds in that grass. Spot's nose ain't what it used to be but him and me have had some wonderful times together. He's still doing the best he can -- and it'd be mighty mean of me to call him a liar at this stage of the game!"
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Great Scott” Our Daily Bread.
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It wasn't like Scott Kregel to give up. He was a battler, a dedicated athlete who spent hour after hour perfecting his free throw and jump shot during the hot summer months of 1987. But just before fall practice everything changed. A serious car accident left Scott in a coma for several days. When he awoke, a long rehabilitation process lay ahead. Like most patients with closed head injuries, Scott balked at doing the slow, tedious work that was required to get him back to normal -- things such as stringing beads. What high school junior would enjoy that? Tom Martin, Scott's basketball coach at the Christian school he attended, had an idea. Coach Martin told Scott that he would reserve a spot on the varsity for him -- if he would cooperate with his therapist and show progress in the tasks he was asked to do. And Tom's wife Cindy spent many hours with Scott, encouraging him to keep going. Within 2 months, Scott was riding off the basketball court on his teammates' shoulders. He had made nine straight free throws to clinch a triple-overtime league victory. It was a remarkable testimony of the power of encouragement.
LEADER: Are you an encourager…do you rejoice in the successes of others…do you let them know you are proud of them…happy for them?
LEADER READ: “Cheering For Rickey Henderson”
Our Daily Bread, June 19, 1994
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Forty thousand fans were on hand in the Oakland stadium when Rickey Henderson tied Lou Brock's career stolen base record. According to USA Today Lou, who had left baseball in 1979, had followed Henderson's career and was excited about his success. Realizing that Rickey would set a new record, Brock said, "I'll be there. Do you think I'm going to miss it now? Rickey did in 12 years what took me 19. He's amazing."
The real success stories in life are with people who can rejoice in the successes of others. What Lou Brock did in cheering on Rickey Henderson should be a way of life in the family of God. Few circumstances give us a better opportunity to exhibit God's grace than when someone succeeds and surpasses us in an area of our own strength and reputation.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Jesse Owens”
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon2a/jesse_owens.htm
David Wallechinsky in THE COMPLETE BOOK OF THE OLYMPICS (USA: Penguin Books, 1984) gives us a story which is worth retelling.
It is 1936. American Jesse Owens seems sure to win the long jump competition in the Olympic games. The previous year he had jumped 26 feet, 8 1/4 inches -- a record that will stand for 25 years.
As he walks to the long-jump pit, however, Owens sees a tall, blue eyed, blond German taking practice jumps in the 26-foot range. Owens feels nervous. He is acutely aware of the Nazis' desire to prove "Aryan superiority." And as a black son of a share cropper, he knows what it is like to feel inferior.
On his first jump, Owens inadvertently leaps from several inches beyond the takeoff board. Rattled, he fouls on his second attempt, too. One more foul and he will be eliminated.
At this point, the tall German introduces himself as Luz Long. "You should be able to qualify with your eyes closed!" he says to Owens, referring to his upcoming two jumps.
For the next few moments, the African American and the white model of Nazi manhood chat together. Then Long makes a suggestion. Since the qualifying distance is only 23 feet, 5 1/2 inches, why not make a mark several inches before the takeoff board and jump from there, just to play it safe? Owens does and qualifies easily.
In the finals, Owens sets an Olympic record and earns the second of four gold medals. But who is the first person to congratulate him? Luz Long -- in full view of Adolf Hitler. Owens never again sees Long, who is later killed in World War II.
"You could melt down all the medals and cups I have," Owens later writes, "and they wouldn't be a platting on the 24-carat friendship I felt for Luz Long."
LEADER: How about in the work place…are you encouraging?
FROM: Steve Goodier's ONE MINUTE CAN CHANGE A LIFE
He almost killed somebody, but one minute changed his life. The beautiful story
comes from Sherman Rogers' old book, "Foremen: Leaders or Drivers?" In his
true-life story, Rogers illustrates the importance of effective relationships.
During his college years, Rogers spent a summer in an Idaho logging camp. When
the superintendent had to leave for a few days, he put Rogers in charge.
"What if the men refuse to follow my orders?" Rogers asked. He thought of Tony,
an immigrant worker who grumbled and growled all day, giving the other men a
hard time.
"Fire them," the superintendent said. Then, as if reading Rogers' mind, he
added, "I suppose you think you are going to fire Tony if you get the chance.
I'd feel badly about that. I have been logging for 40 years. Tony is the most
reliable worker I've ever had. I know he is a grouch and that he hates everybody
and everything. But he comes in first and leaves last. There has not been an
accident for eight years on the hill where he works."
Rogers took over the next day. He went to Tony and spoke to him. "Tony, do you
know I'm in charge here today?" Tony grunted. "I was going to fire you the first
time we tangled, but I want you to know I'm not," he told Tony, adding what the
superintendent had said.
When he finished, Tony dropped the shovelful of sand he had held and tears
streamed down his face. "Why he no tell me dat eight years ago?"
That day Tony worked harder than ever before -- and he smiled! He later said to
Rogers, "I told Maria you first foreman in deese country who ever say, 'Good
work, Tony,' and it make Maria feel like Christmas."
Rogers went back to school after that summer. Twelve years later he met Tony
again. He was superintendent for railroad construction for one of the largest
logging companies in the West. Rogers asked him how he came to California and
happened to have such success.
Tony replied, "If it not be for the one minute you talk to me back in Idaho, I
keel somebody someday. One minute, she change my whole life."
Effective managers know the importance of taking a moment to point out what a
worker is doing well. But what a difference a minute of affirmation can make in
any relationship!
One minute. Have you got one minute to thank someone? A minute to tell someone
what you sincerely like or appreciate about her? A minute to elaborate on
something he did well? One minute. It can make a difference for a lifetime.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Great Motivator”
Bits & Pieces, May 27, 1993, p. 12.
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A compliment can be a great motivator, particularly if you put a little thought into the why, when, and how of delivering it. Be sure to comment whenever someone on your staff keeps working in the face of rejection, handles a difficult situation well, catches an error, given another employee a helping hand, sells a particular product for the first time, or gives you a lead that proves fruitful. Most of the time, a compliment should be given in public, either at a meeting or on the company bulletin board. If the situation is delicate, convey your praise through a personal note that the employee can share with his family. As with all rewards, praise should be given immediately after good performance to provide the greatest reinforcement.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: QUOTE # 5
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon3/alexander_solzhenitsyn.htm
"Many a time a word of praise or thanks or appreciation or cheer has kept a man on his feet. Blessed is the man who speaks such a word."
William Barclay 1546-1608, Author/Professor
HAVE SOMEONE READ: QUOTE # 6
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“A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success.”
Source Unknown
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “The Need of Encouragers” EXCERPT
By Peter Kennedy
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon3a/need_of_encouragers.htm
"But Barnabas took him and brought him to the
apostles. He told them how Saul on his journey had seen the Lord and that the
Lord had spoken to him, and how in Damascus he had preached fearlessly in the
name of Jesus." - Acts 9:27
One of the greatest ministries you can have is being an encourager to others.
Without the encouragement of Barnabas, there would not be an Apostle Paul. Do
you know someone who needs to be encouraged in the Lord? Today in prayer, thank
Christ that in Him we have hope and then seek to encourage others to follow Him.
"This ministry of consolation and encouragement is not to be regarded as
inferior and of secondary importance. Did we but discern it, we are daily
surrounded by lonely aching and sometimes broken hearts." - J. Oswald Sanders
HAVE SOMEONE READ: I Thessalonians 3:2
and we sent Timothy, our brother and God's fellow worker in the gospel of Christ, to strengthen and encourage you as to your faith,
LEADER READ: “Encouragement From Biblical Principles”
Today’s Word 6/1/99
http://www.crusade.org/word/word1242.html
The second mission of Timothy was to "encourage" the Thessalonians. The word "encouraged" connotes to cause someone to be consoled, either by verbal or non-verbal means. This is more than saying sweet things to fellow Christians. It is giving them strength in their faith to form principles for spiritual living.
Encouragement comes from forming biblical principles for life.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: Hebrews 3:13
"But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness." -
LEADER READ: “Affirming Words” EXCERPT
John Trent, Ph.D., Vice President of Today's Family, Men of Action, Winter 1993, p. 5.
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I wish you could sit in my office, when I counsel, and hear the terrible damage that individuals received from not hearing affirming words -- particularly affirming words from a father. While words from a godly teacher can melt a heart, words from a father can powerfully set the course of a life.
If affirming words were something rarely spoken in your home growing up, let me give you some tips on words and phrases that can brighten your own child's eyes and life. These words are easy to say to any child who comes into your life. (LEADER’S NOTE: Try these on your spouse, friends, family.) I'm proud of you, Way to go, Bingo ... you did it, Magnificent, I knew you could do it, What a good helper, You're very special to me, I trust you, What a treasure, Hurray for you, Beautiful work, You're a real trooper, Well done, That's so creative, You make my day, You're a joy, Give me a big hug, You're such a good listener, You figured it out, I love you, You're so responsible, You remembered, You're the best, You sure tried hard, I've got to hand it to you, I couldn't be prouder of you, You light up my day, I'm praying for you, You're wonderful, I'm behind you, You're so kind to your (brother/sister), You're God's special gift, I'm here for you.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: Colossians 2:1-3
For I want you to know how great a struggle I have on your behalf and for those who are at Laodicea, and for all those who have not personally seen my face, that their hearts may be encouraged, having been knit together in love, and attaining to all the wealth that comes from the full assurance of understanding, resulting in a true knowledge of God's mystery, that is, Christ Himself, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.
Thanks to WITandWISDOM(tm) - March 26, 2001
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon2a/howard_hendricks.htm
In "Today in the Word" it is reported that, "Dr.
Howard Hendricks of Dallas Theological Seminary says he can remember only two of
his childhood school teachers; his fifth and sixth grade teachers. He had a
reputation for causing trouble in the classroom. His fifth grade teacher dealt
with him by tying him to his seat and wrapping mucilage paper over his mouth.
"Finally, Dr. Hendricks reports, he was promoted to the sixth grade. His teacher
was 6'4" tall, 'a feminine version of Sherlock Holmes.' As he walked into her
class she said, 'Oh, you're Howard Hendricks. I've heard a lot about you.' But
then she added, 'But I don't believe a word of it!'
"She convinced him that she had confidence in him, and Dr. Hendricks recalls
that he knocked himself out to please her."
Every child and every adult -- including the elderly — need lots of positive
affirmation and encouragement. Everyone needs someone to believe in and love
him/her ... without which we can shrivel up and die inside.
LEADER: Do you receive encouragement well …or do you feel unworthy? Do you rejoice in your accomplishments…in your life….in the kind and encouraging words of a friend or even a stranger?
LEADER: Who tries to rob us of our joy? (Satan)
Amy Carmichael in Learning of God
Everywhere the perpetual endeavor of the enemy of souls is to discourage. If he can get the soul “under the weather,” he wins. It is not really what we go through that matters, it is what we go under that breaks us. We can bear anything if only we are kept inwardly victorious...
If God can make His birds to whistle in drenched and stormy darkness, if He can make His butterflies able to bear up under rain, what can He not do for the heart that trusts Him?
HAVE SOMEONE READ: John 10:10
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and
destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: Who is your daddy?
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon3b/who_is_your_daddy.htm
A seminary professor was vacationing with his wife in Gatlinburg, TN. One
morning, they were eating breakfast at little restaurant, hoping to enjoy a
quiet, family meal. While they were waiting for their food, they noticed a
distinguished looking, white-haired man moving from table to table, visiting
with the guests. The professor leaned over and whispered to his wife, "I hope he
doesn't come over here."
But sure enough, the man did come over to their table. "Where are you folks
from?" he asked in a friendly voice. "Oklahoma," they answered. "Great to have
you here in Tennessee." the stranger said. "What do you do for a living?" "I
teach at a seminary," he replied. "Oh, so you teach preachers how to preach, do
you? Well, I've got a really great story for you." And with that, the gentleman
pulled up a chair and sat down at the table with the couple.
The professor groaned and thought to himself, "Great... Just what I need...
another preacher story!"
The man started, "See that mountain over there? (pointing out the restaurant
window). Not far from the base of that mountain, there was a boy born to an
unwed mother. He had a hard time growing up, because every place he went, he was
always asked the same question, 'Hey boy, Who's your daddy?' "Whether he was at
school, in the grocery store or drug store, people would ask the same question,
'Who's your daddy?' He would hide at recess and lunch time from other students.
He would avoid going in to stores because that question hurt him so bad." When
he was about 12 years old, a new preacher came to his church. He would always go
in late and slip out early to avoid hearing the question, 'Who's your daddy?'.
But one day, the new preacher said the benediction so fast he got caught and had
to walk out with the crowd." Just about the time he got to the back door, the
new preacher, not knowing anything about him, put his hand on his shoulder and
asked him, 'Son, who's your daddy?'
"The whole church got deathly quiet. He could feel every eye in the church
looking at him. Now everyone would finally know the answer to the question,
'Who's your daddy'. This new preacher, though, sensed the situation around him
and using discernment that only the Holy Spirit could give, said the following
to that scared little boy... "'Wait a minute' he said. 'I know who you are. I
see the family resemblance now. You are a child of God.'
With that he patted the boy on his shoulder and said, 'Boy, you've got a great
inheritance. Go and claim it.'
The boy smiled for the first time in a long time and walked out the door a
changed person. He was never the same again. Whenever anybody asked him, 'Who's
your Daddy?' he'd just tell them, 'I'm a Child of God'."
The distinguished gentleman got up from the table and said, "Isn't that a great
story?" The professor responded that it really was a great story. As the man
turned to leave, he said, "You know, if that new preacher hadn't told me that I
was one of God's children, I probably never would have amounted to anything!"
And he walked away.
The seminary professor and his wife were stunned. He called the waitress over
and asked her, "Do you know who that man was who just left that was sitting at
our table?" The waitress grinned and said, "Of course. Everybody here knows him.
That's Ben Hooper. He's the former governor of Tennessee!"
LEADER: Who has come that we might have life and have it more abundantly?
When All Hell Breaks Loose (You May Be Doing Something Right), Steven J. Lawson, NavPress, Morning Glory, July-August 1995, p. 27.
If we read the discouraging circumstances of life—the people who do us in, the job that doesn’t work out, and the other struggles that seem to engulf us—we will surely crash.
But if we would keep our eyes on Jesus Christ and stay grounded in His word, then we will make it safely through the storm.
Maybe you’re in a storm. God has a purpose in leading you into the storm. He has power to preserve you through the storm. And, He has a plan to eventually lead you out of the storm. Put your eyes on Christ. Trust His Word.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: 2 Corinthians 12:9
And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness." Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Olympic Game” EXCERPT
By Rubel Shelly The FAX of Life
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon1a/olympic.htm
My favorite story from Olympic competition involves Derek Redmond. The British record-holder in the 400 meters was running in the semi-finals at Barcelona in 1992. Headed for the tape, he heard a pop in his right hamstring, clutched his leg in pain, and went down on the track - as if in prayer. Then a man came from the stands, brushed aside obstacles, and came to his side.
Jim Redmond was out of the stands for the sake of his crippled son. A devoted father took his son's arm, drew it around his shoulder, and the two made their way together to the finish line. That's love coming to the rescue.
Starting the week discouraged? Thinking there's no reason to stay in the race? Feeling like a spiritual cripple and ready to give up? God has come out of the stands, become one with us in our flesh-and-blood struggles, and is getting us to the finish line.
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us" (Hebrews 12:1).
HAVE SOMEONE READ: Psalm 84:11-12
For the LORD God is a sun and shield; The
LORD gives grace and glory;
No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly. O LORD of
hosts, How blessed is the man who trusts in You!
Lita Kurtzer, Zion’s Fire, March-April, 1992
I refuse to be discouraged, to be sad, or to
cry;
I refuse to be down-hearted, and here’s the reason why:
I have a God who’s mighty—who’s sovereign and supreme;
I have a God who loves me, and I am on His team.
He is all-wise and powerful—Jehovah is His name;
Though everything is changeable, my God remains
the same.
My God knows all that’s happening—beginning to the end;
His presence is my comfort; He is my dearest Friend.
When sickness comes to weaken me—to bring my head down low;
I call upon my mighty God; into His arms I go.
When circumstances threaten to rob me of my peace,
He draws me close unto His breast where all my strivings cease.
When my heart melts within me, and weakness takes control,
He gathers me into His arms—He soothes my heart and soul.
The great “I AM” is with me—my life is in His
hand;
The “God of Jacob” is my hope; it’s in His strength I stand.
I refuse to be defeated—my eyes are on my God;
He has promised to be with me as through this life I trod.
I’m looking past all circumstance to Heaven’s
throne above;
My prayers have reached the heart of God—I’m resting in His love.
I give God thanks in everything—my eyes are on His face;
The battle’s His, the vict’ry mine; He’ll help me win the race.
Jaye Lewis jlewis@smyth.net
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon6/wonderfully_made.htm
I have learned that the ugly words that others speak about me, say more about them, than they say about me. So do not listen to negativity. Your Heavenly Father declares in His WORD, that you are "fearfully and wonderfully made." Believe Him. You are wonderful. Totally unique. And God expects great things from you. Expect them from yourself.
by Dick Innes, Daily Encounter
http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon2/enrico_caruso.htm
The story is told how, as a boy, he worked long hours in a factory in Naples. He longed to be a singer. When ten years old, he took his first lesson in voice. 'You can't sing. You haven't any voice at all. Your voice sounds like the wind in the shutters,' said his teacher.
The boy's mother, however, had visions of greatness for her son. She believed that he had a talent to sing. She was very poor. Putting her arms around him she encouragingly said, 'My boy, I am going to make every sacrifice to pay for your voice lessons.'
Her confidence in him and constant encouragement paid off! That boy became one of the worlds greatest singers -- Enrico Caruso!
Not many will become as famous as Caruso, but every one of us is given an opportunity to make something worthwhile out of our life and be equally rewarded. The important thing is not what we have or don't have, but what we do with what we have. As the poet expressed it:
"Isn't it strange that princes and kings
And clowns that caper in sawdust rings,
And common folks like you and me
All are builders for eternity.
"To each is given a book of rules,
A block of stone and a bag of tools;
And each must shape 'ere time has flown,
A stumbling block or a stepping stone."
With God's help and using the gifts he has given to each of us -- whether they be great or small -- we, too can make something worthwhile out of our life. And when we do and come to the end of life's journey, it will be worth it all when we hear the Saviour say to us, "Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your Lord."
HAVE SOMEONE READ: QUOTE #7
http://www.cybernation.com/victory/quotations/subjects/quotes_encouragement.html
“I believe that any man's life will be filled with constant and unexpected encouragement, if he makes up his mind to do his level best each day, and as nearly as possible reaching the high water mark of pure and useful living.”
Booker T. Washington 1856-1915
Foremost black educator of the late 19th and early 20th centuries
HAVE SOMEONE READ: Philemon 1:4-7 NIV
I want you to know how much I am struggling for you and for those at Laodicea, and for all who have not met me personally. My purpose is that they may be encouraged in heart and united in love, so that they may have the full riches of complete understanding, in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely, Christ, 3in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.
HAVE SOMEONE READ “The Blessing of the Smile” EXCERPT
Today’s Encouragement Tuesday, March 23, 2004 Stephen C. Weber
http://www.dailyencouragement.net/
I recently saw a sign in front of a farm house with this message: “A smile is a curve that straightens everything out.” Well, a smile is a curve and although it doesn’t necessarily straighten everything out, it can sure have a positive affect.
Interestingly the Bible doesn’t have a lot of references to smiling and today’s portion is one of them. In fact it’s kind of hard to read this without smiling! Job is speaking, sharing his personal testimony, while he is in the midst of his suffering. In this discourse he considers the blessing he had been to others prior to his trial, “in months gone by” (Job 29:1).
Now I would have a hard time saying this about myself but notice Job’s words, “When I smiled at them, they scarcely believed it; the light of my face was precious to them.” That’s sure quite a description of the influence of a smile isn’t it? Consider these words today as you both receive smiles and share them with others. It can be a gloomy world with so much distressing news and for so many who are going through difficult times. What an added blessing to each of us is the facial feature called the smile. Truth is, we’d much rather be surrounded by those who frequently smile, than those who rarely see anything to smile about!
Be encouraged today.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: “Building Community” EXCERPT
http://www.sermoncentral.com/print_friendly.asp?ContributorID=&SermonID=35019
As we encourage others, we become encouraged ourselves. As we express appreciation, we become thankful. As we encourage someone to trust God, or own faith is strengthened. As we comfort others who are suffering, we ourselves find comfort and joy.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: II Corinthians 1:3-4
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
HAVE SOMEONE READ: Proverbs
11:25
A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be
refreshed.
LEADER READ: QUOTE #8
http://www.entwagon.com/cgi-bin/quotes/quotes.pl?cat=Encouragement
“The finest gift you can give anyone is encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets the encouragement they need to grow to their full potential. If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in most everyone would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond the wildest dreams. We would have more than one Einstein, Edison, Schweitzer, Mother Theresa, Dr. Salk and other great minds in a century.”
Sidney Madwed
American Speaker, Consultant, Author, Poet
LEADER READ: I Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you also are doing.
LEADER READ: 2 Corinthians 13:14
The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit, be with you all.
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Discouragement is dissatisfaction with the past, distaste for the present, and distrust of the future. It is ingratitude for the blessings of yesterday, indifference to the opportunities of today, and insecurity regarding strength for tomorrow. It is unawareness of the presence of beauty, unconcern for the needs of our fellowman, and unbelief in the promises of old. It is impatience with time, immaturity of thought, and impoliteness to God. William Ward
“The Duke of Wellington”
The British military leader who defeated Napoleon at Waterloo, was not an easy man to serve under. He was brilliant, demanding, and not one to shower his subordinates with compliments. Yet even Wellington realized that his methods left something to be desired. In his old age a young lady asked him what, if anything, he would do differently if he had his life to live over again. Wellington thought for a moment, then replied. "I'd give more praise."
“Let’s Play Darts”
Everyone needs recognition for his accomplishments, but few people make the need known quite as clearly as the little boy who said to his father: "Let's play darts. I'll throw and you say 'Wonderful!'"
“From Factory to Famous”
In the early 19th century, a young man in London
aspired to be a writer. But everything seemed to be against him. He had never
been able to attend school more than four years. His father had been thrown in
jail because he couldn't pay his debts, and this young man often knew the pangs
of hunger. Finally he got a job pasting labels on bottles in a rat-infested
warehouse, and he slept at night in a dismal attic room with two other boys -
guttersnipes from the slums of London. He had so little confidence in his
ability to write that he sneaked out and mailed his first manuscript in the dead
of night so nobody would laugh at him. Story after story was refused. Finally
the great day came when one was accepted. True, he wasn't paid for it, but one
editor had praised him. One editor had given him recognition. He was so thrilled
that he wandered aimlessly around the streets with tears rolling down his
cheeks.
The praise, the recognition that he received through getting one story in print
changed his whole life. If it hadn't been for that encouragement, he might have
spent his entire life working in rat-infested factories. You may have heard of
that boy. His name is Charles Dickens.
“There are high spots in all of our lives and most of them have come about through encouragement from someone else. I don't care how great, how famous or successful a man or woman may be, each hungers for applause.
George M. Adams1878-1962, American Author
Dante Bartiel Rossetti, the famous 19th-century poet and artist, was once approached by an elderly man. The old fellow had some sketches and drawings that he wanted Rossetti to look at and tell him if they were any good, or if they, at least, showed potential talent.
Rossetti looked them over carefully. After the first few he knew that they were worthless, showing not the least sign of artistic talent. But Rossetti was a kind man and he told the elderly man as gently as possible that the pictures were without much value and showed little talent. He was sorry, but he could not lie to the man.
The visitor was disappointed, but seemed to expect Rossetti’s judgment. He then apologized for taking up Rossetti’s time, but would he just look at a few more drawings—these done by a young art student?
Rossetti looked over the second batch of sketches and immediately enthused over the talent they revealed. “These,” he said, “ah, these are good. This young man, whoever he is, has great talent. He should be given every help and encouragement in his career as an artist. He has a great future, if he will work hard and stick with it.”
Rossetti could see that the old fellow was deeply moved. “Who is this fine young artist?” he asked. “Your son?”
“No,” said the old fellow sadly. “It is me—40 years ago. If only I had heard your praise then … for you see, I got discouraged and gave up—too soon.”
QUOTE # 3
“Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you.”
William Arthur Ward, Author
“Old Spot”
During quail season in Georgia, an Atlanta journalist met an old farmer hunting with an ancient pointer at his side. Twice the dog ran rheumatically ahead and pointed. Twice his master fired into the open air. When the journalist saw no birds rise, he asked the farmer for an explanation. "Shucks," grinned the old man, "I knew there weren't no birds in that grass. Spot's nose ain't what it used to be but him and me have had some wonderful times together. He's still doing the best he can -- and it'd be mighty mean of me to call him a liar at this stage of the game!"
QUOTE # 4
“Correction does much, but encouragement does more. Encouragement after censure is as the sun after a shower.”
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe 1749-1832 One of the greatest figures in Western literature
“Great Scott”
It wasn't like Scott Kregel to give up. He was a battler, a dedicated athlete who spent hour after hour perfecting his free throw and jump shot during the hot summer months of 1987. But just before fall practice everything changed. A serious car accident left Scott in a coma for several days. When he awoke, a long rehabilitation process lay ahead. Like most patients with closed head injuries, Scott balked at doing the slow, tedious work that was required to get him back to normal -- things such as stringing beads. What high school junior would enjoy that? Tom Martin, Scott's basketball coach at the Christian school he attended, had an idea. Coach Martin told Scott that he would reserve a spot on the varsity for him -- if he would cooperate with his therapist and show progress in the tasks he was asked to do. And Tom's wife Cindy spent many hours with Scott, encouraging him to keep going. Within 2 months, Scott was riding off the basketball court on his teammates' shoulders. He had made nine straight free throws to clinch a triple-overtime league victory. It was a remarkable testimony of the power of encouragement.
“Jesse Owens”
David Wallechinsky in THE COMPLETE BOOK OF THE OLYMPICS (USA: Penguin Books, 1984) gives us a story which is worth retelling.
It is 1936. American Jesse Owens seems sure to win the long jump competition in the Olympic games. The previous year he had jumped 26 feet, 8 1/4 inches -- a record that will stand for 25 years.
As he walks to the long-jump pit, however, Owens sees a tall, blue eyed, blond German taking practice jumps in the 26-foot range. Owens feels nervous. He is acutely aware of the Nazis' desire to prove "Aryan superiority." And as a black son of a share cropper, he knows what it is like to feel inferior.
On his first jump, Owens inadvertently leaps from several inches beyond the takeoff board. Rattled, he fouls on his second attempt, too. One more foul and he will be eliminated.
At this point, the tall German introduces himself as Luz Long. "You should be able to qualify with your eyes closed!" he says to Owens, referring to his upcoming two jumps.
For the next few moments, the African American and the white model of Nazi manhood chat together. Then Long makes a suggestion. Since the qualifying distance is only 23 feet, 5 1/2 inches, why not make a mark several inches before the takeoff board and jump from there, just to play it safe? Owens does and qualifies easily.
In the finals, Owens sets an Olympic record and earns the second of four gold medals. But who is the first person to congratulate him? Luz Long -- in full view of Adolf Hitler. Owens never again sees Long, who is later killed in World War II.
"You could melt down all the medals and cups I have," Owens later writes, "and they wouldn't be a platting on the 24-carat friendship I felt for Luz Long."
He almost killed somebody,
but one minute changed his life. The beautiful story comes from Sherman Rogers'
old book, "Foremen: Leaders or Drivers?" In his true-life story, Rogers
illustrates the importance of effective relationships.
During his college years, Rogers spent a summer in an Idaho logging camp. When
the superintendent had to leave for a few days, he put Rogers in charge.
"What if the men refuse to follow my orders?" Rogers asked. He thought of Tony,
an immigrant worker who grumbled and growled all day, giving the other men a
hard time.
"Fire them," the superintendent said. Then, as if reading Rogers' mind, he
added, "I suppose you think you are going to fire Tony if you get the chance.
I'd feel badly about that. I have been logging for 40 years. Tony is the most
reliable worker I've ever had. I know he is a grouch and that he hates everybody
and everything. But he comes in first and leaves last. There has not been an
accident for eight years on the hill where he works."
Rogers took over the next day. He went to Tony and spoke to him. "Tony, do you
know I'm in charge here today?" Tony grunted. "I was going to fire you the first
time we tangled, but I want you to know I'm not," he told Tony, adding what the
superintendent had said.
When he finished, Tony dropped the shovelful of sand he had held and tears
streamed down his face. "Why he no tell me dat eight years ago?"
That day Tony worked harder than ever before -- and he smiled! He later said to
Rogers, "I told Maria you first foreman in deese country who ever say, 'Good
work, Tony,' and it make Maria feel like Christmas."
Rogers went back to school after that summer. Twelve years later he met Tony
again. He was superintendent for railroad construction for one of the largest
logging companies in the West. Rogers asked him how he came to California and
happened to have such success.
Tony replied, "If it not be for the one minute you talk to me back in Idaho, I
keel somebody someday. One minute, she change my whole life."
Effective managers know the importance of taking a moment to point out what a
worker is doing well. But what a difference a minute of affirmation can make in
any relationship!
One minute. Have you got one minute to thank someone? A minute to tell someone
what you sincerely like or appreciate about her? A minute to elaborate on
something he did well? One minute. It can make a difference for a lifetime.
“Great Motivator”
A compliment can be a great motivator, particularly if you put a little thought into the why, when, and how of delivering it. Be sure to comment whenever someone on your staff keeps working in the face of rejection, handles a difficult situation well, catches an error, given another employee a helping hand, sells a particular product for the first time, or gives you a lead that proves fruitful. Most of the time, a compliment should be given in public, either at a meeting or on the company bulletin board. If the situation is delicate, convey your praise through a personal note that the employee can share with his family. As with all rewards, praise should be given immediately after good performance to provide the greatest reinforcement.
QUOTE # 5
"Many a time a word of praise or thanks or appreciation or cheer has kept a man on his feet. Blessed is the man who speaks such a word."
William Barclay 1546-1608, Author/Professor
QUOTE # 6
“A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success.” Source Unknown
“The Need of Encouragers”
"But Barnabas took him
and brought him to the apostles. He told them how Saul on his journey had seen
the Lord and that the Lord had spoken to him, and how in Damascus he had
preached fearlessly in the name of Jesus." -
Acts 9:27
One of the greatest ministries you can have is being an encourager to others.
Without the encouragement of Barnabas, there would not be an Apostle Paul. Do
you know someone who needs to be encouraged in the Lord? Today in prayer, thank
Christ that in Him we have hope and then seek to encourage others to follow Him.
"This ministry of consolation and encouragement is not to be regarded as
inferior and of secondary importance. Did we but discern it, we are daily
surrounded by lonely aching and sometimes broken hearts." - J. Oswald Sanders
I Thessalonians 3:2
Hebrews 3:13
Colossians 2:1-3
In "Today in the Word" it is reported that, "Dr.
Howard Hendricks of Dallas Theological Seminary says he can remember only two of
his childhood school teachers; his fifth and sixth grade teachers. He had a
reputation for causing trouble in the classroom. His fifth grade teacher dealt
with him by tying him to his seat and wrapping mucilage paper over his mouth.
"Finally, Dr. Hendricks reports, he was promoted to the sixth grade. His teacher
was 6'4" tall, 'a feminine version of Sherlock Holmes.' As he walked into her
class she said, 'Oh, you're Howard Hendricks. I've heard a lot about you.' But
then she added, 'But I don't believe a word of it!'
"She convinced him that she had confidence in him, and Dr. Hendricks recalls
that he knocked himself out to please her."
Every child and every adult -- including the elderly — need lots of positive
affirmation and encouragement. Everyone needs someone to believe in and love
him/her ... without which we can shrivel up and die inside.
Who is your daddy?
A seminary professor was
vacationing with his wife in Gatlinburg, TN. One morning, they were eating
breakfast at little restaurant, hoping to enjoy a quiet, family meal. While they
were waiting for their food, they noticed a distinguished looking, white-haired
man moving from table to table, visiting with the guests. The professor leaned
over and whispered to his wife, "I hope he doesn't come over here."
But sure enough, the man did come over to their table. "Where are you folks
from?" he asked in a friendly voice. "Oklahoma," they answered. "Great to have
you here in Tennessee." the stranger said. "What do you do for a living?" "I
teach at a seminary," he replied. "Oh, so you teach preachers how to preach, do
you? Well, I've got a really great story for you." And with that, the gentleman
pulled up a chair and sat down at the table with the couple.
The professor groaned and thought to himself, "Great... Just what I need...
another preacher story!"
The man started, "See that mountain over there? (pointing out the restaurant
window). Not far from the base of that mountain, there was a boy born to an
unwed mother. He had a hard time growing up, because every place he went, he was
always asked the same question, 'Hey boy, Who's your daddy?' "Whether he was at
school, in the grocery store or drug store, people would ask the same question,
'Who's your daddy?' He would hide at recess and lunch time from other students.
He would avoid going in to stores because that question hurt him so bad." When
he was about 12 years old, a new preacher came to his church. He would always go
in late and slip out early to avoid hearing the question, 'Who's your daddy?'.
But one day, the new preacher said the benediction so fast he got caught and had
to walk out with the crowd." Just about the time he got to the back door, the
new preacher, not knowing anything about him, put his hand on his shoulder and
asked him, 'Son, who's your daddy?'
"The whole church got deathly quiet. He could feel every eye in the church
looking at him. Now everyone would finally know the answer to the question,
'Who's your daddy'. This new preacher, though, sensed the situation around him
and using discernment that only the Holy Spirit could give, said the following
to that scared little boy... "'Wait a minute' he said. 'I know who you are. I
see the family resemblance now. You are a child of God.'
With that he patted the boy on his shoulder and said, 'Boy, you've got a great
inheritance. Go and claim it.'
The boy smiled for the first time in a long time and walked out the door a
changed person. He was never the same again. Whenever anybody asked him, 'Who's
your Daddy?' he'd just tell them, 'I'm a Child of God'."
The distinguished gentleman got up from the table and said, "Isn't that a great
story?" The professor responded that it really was a great story. As the man
turned to leave, he said, "You know, if that new preacher hadn't told me that I
was one of God's children, I probably never would have amounted to anything!"
And he walked away.
The seminary professor and his wife were stunned. He called the waitress over
and asked her, "Do you know who that man was who just left that was sitting at
our table?" The waitress grinned and said, "Of course. Everybody here knows him.
That's Ben Hooper. He's the former governor of Tennessee!"
Everywhere the perpetual endeavor of the enemy of souls is to discourage. If he can get the soul “under the weather,” he wins. It is not really what we go through that matters, it is what we go under that breaks us. We can bear anything if only we are kept inwardly victorious...
If God can make His birds to whistle in drenched and stormy darkness, if He can make His butterflies able to bear up under rain, what can He not do for the heart that trusts Him?
John 10:10
2 Corinthians 12:9
Psalm 84:11-12
I refuse to be discouraged, to be sad, or to
cry;
I refuse to be down-hearted, and here’s the reason why:
I have a God who’s mighty—who’s sovereign and supreme;
I have a God who loves me, and I am on His team.
He is all-wise and powerful—Jehovah is His name;
Though everything is changeable, my God remains
the same.
My God knows all that’s happening—beginning to the end;
His presence is my comfort; He is my dearest Friend.
When sickness comes to weaken me—to bring my head down low;
I call upon my mighty God; into His arms I go.
When circumstances threaten to rob me of my peace,
He draws me close unto His breast where all my strivings cease.
When my heart melts within me, and weakness takes control,
He gathers me into His arms—He soothes my heart and soul.
The great “I AM” is with me—my life is in His
hand;
The “God of Jacob” is my hope; it’s in His strength I stand.
I refuse to be defeated—my eyes are on my God;
He has promised to be with me as through this life I trod.
I’m looking past all circumstance to Heaven’s
throne above;
My prayers have reached the heart of God—I’m resting in His love.
I give God thanks in everything—my eyes are on His face;
The battle’s His, the vict’ry mine; He’ll help me win the race.
“Olympic Game”
My favorite story from Olympic competition involves Derek Redmond. The British record-holder in the 400 meters was running in the semi-finals at Barcelona in 1992. Headed for the tape, he heard a pop in his right hamstring, clutched his leg in pain, and went down on the track - as if in prayer. Then a man came from the stands, brushed aside obstacles, and came to his side.
Jim Redmond was out of the stands for the sake of his crippled son. A devoted father took his son's arm, drew it around his shoulder, and the two made their way together to the finish line. That's love coming to the rescue.
Starting the week discouraged? Thinking there's no reason to stay in the race? Feeling like a spiritual cripple and ready to give up? God has come out of the stands, become one with us in our flesh-and-blood struggles, and is getting us to the finish line.
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us" (Hebrews 12:1).
The story is told how, as a boy, he worked long hours in a factory in Naples. He longed to be a singer. When ten years old, he took his first lesson in voice. 'You can't sing. You haven't any voice at all. Your voice sounds like the wind in the shutters,' said his teacher.
The boy's mother, however, had visions of greatness for her son. She believed that he had a talent to sing. She was very poor. Putting her arms around him she encouragingly said, 'My boy, I am going to make every sacrifice to pay for your voice lessons.'
Her confidence in him and constant encouragement paid off! That boy became one of the worlds greatest singers -- Enrico Caruso!
Not many will become as famous as Caruso, but every one of us is given an opportunity to make something worthwhile out of our life and be equally rewarded. The important thing is not what we have or don't have, but what we do with what we have. As the poet expressed it:
"Isn't it strange that princes and kings
And clowns that caper in sawdust rings,
And common folks like you and me
All are builders for eternity.
"To each is given a book of rules,
A block of stone and a bag of tools;
And each must shape 'ere time has flown,
A stumbling block or a stepping stone."
With God's help and using the gifts he has given to each of us -- whether they be great or small -- we, too can make something worthwhile out of our life. And when we do and come to the end of life's journey, it will be worth it all when we hear the Saviour say to us, "Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your Lord."
I have learned that the ugly words that others speak about me, say more about them, than they say about me. So do not listen to negativity. Your Heavenly Father declares in His WORD, that you are "fearfully and wonderfully made." Believe Him. You are wonderful. Totally unique. And God expects great things from you. Expect them from yourself.
QUOTE #7
“I believe that any man's life will be filled with constant and unexpected encouragement, if he makes up his mind to do his level best each day, and as nearly as possible reaching the high water mark of pure and useful living.”
Booker T. Washington 1856-1915
Foremost black educator of the late 19th and early 20th centuries
Philemon 1:4-7 NIV
“The Blessing of the Smile”
I recently saw a sign in front of a farm house with this message: “A smile is a curve that straightens everything out.” Well, a smile is a curve and although it doesn’t necessarily straighten everything out, it can sure have a positive affect.
Interestingly the Bible doesn’t have a lot of references to smiling and today’s portion is one of them. In fact it’s kind of hard to read this without smiling! Job is speaking, sharing his personal testimony, while he is in the midst of his suffering. In this discourse he considers the blessing he had been to others prior to his trial, “in months gone by” (Job 29:1).
Now I would have a hard time saying this about myself but notice Job’s words, “When I smiled at them, they scarcely believed it; the light of my face was precious to them.” That’s sure quite a description of the influence of a smile isn’t it? Consider these words today as you both receive smiles and share them with others. It can be a gloomy world with so much distressing news and for so many who are going through difficult times. What an added blessing to each of us is the facial feature called the smile. Truth is, we’d much rather be surrounded by those who frequently smile, than those who rarely see anything to smile about!
Be encouraged today.
“Building Community”
As we encourage others, we become encouraged ourselves. As we express appreciation, we become thankful. As we encourage someone to trust God, or own faith is strengthened. As we comfort others who are suffering, we ourselves find comfort and joy.
II Corinthians 1:3-4
Proverbs
11:25